Unaltered Voices

Family is often seen as the foundation of unconditional love and support, but what happens when that support is selectively given? This question has been a recurring theme in my life, and reflecting on it has been both painful and eye-opening. I’ve always struggled because my family often chose to uplift those who weren’t putting in the effort while leaving me unsupported. It wasn’t just about being overlooked—it felt like a constant attack on my life and the goals I was striving to achieve. One moment stands out vividly: my mother proudly attended my cousin’s graduation, celebrating her accomplishments, but didn’t bother to come to mind when I graduated from Delta College. That hurt deeply, but it wasn’t the only instance. My aunt, for example, frequently boasts about paying all the bills in the family house to support my cousin simply because she has a baby. It’s as if having a child excuses everything else, no matter what questionable actions she’s taken. Meanwhile, I was left feeli...